Self-righteous hypocrites!! That's what I call people who act so holy and christian-like in church, praising God, singing, and praying, and then turn around and act so very different in their own homes. All I can do is roll my eyes at them. Some are deacons in the church and some preachers and they lead their congregations well, but can't lead in their homes where it is needed most. Family comes first after God. Yes, leading sinners to Christ is of utmost importance, but at what expense if you neglect the greatest gift other than salvation that God gave you - your family. The worst thing is, they either can't see what they are doing as wrong OR they just don't care. How can a person care more about what their boss or co-workers think of them than what their own family thinks. You put family BEFORE your boss and work. Neglecting family is neglecting a great gift from God. I guess Satan has blinders on 'Christians' as well. They just don't or can't see the damage they are doing. There will come a time when it's too late to make amends for all the years of neglecting family. Then what??